My 20th Birthday

I seriously feel like I'm not even 20 because I grew up way to fast being a teen mom. I feel like I'm an old soul but a kid at heart. I'm thankful for my sons because they keep me humble and sane. I don't ever regret having them. I just regret having them so young. But you can't regret anything that once made you smile right? Anyways, I celebrated my birthday at Layalinas Hookah Bar and Lounge. Everyone helped out to reserve the whole back room for me which was $250. It was dope! Before we went to the club we pre-partied at the house. I was mixing drinks all night and didn't have anything in my stomach. You already know how that goes. I had an amazing time. I danced the whole night away with my girls. After the club we went to Dennys to grab a bite to eat and I don't remember anything after. I threw up all night and had the worst hangover the next morning. My 20th has been the best birthday so far. I can't wait until next year! :)

I asked everyone to please wear all black so that the birthday girl can stand out. Turned out that the only dress I kind of liked ended up being black.


My yummy red velvet birthday cake. Thanks Kelly =)


Nathan helped me blow out the candles.


Before the club


Wanna come get in the pic?


All the girls. Don't mind me being barefeet. I don't know how to dance with heels on.


I was so happy that Lew and Lia could make it because we don't really keep in touch anymore.


Idk???


Thanks for the bottle Ken and Sue!


My sister Karen and I


Thanks for the Juicy Jen =)


One of my best friends Vicky! She took care of me that night ;)


Thanks for the Moscato Lisa :)


And thanks for all the gifts and to everyone who came! =)

8 year anniversary

Nelson and I met in middle school when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th. Crazy how I wished for forever and it came true. We've been inseperable ever since. For our 8 year anniversary we went to Firehouse Restuarant in Old Sac. Before our reservation we had time to walk around Downtown Mall. I was looking around for a dress to wear for my birthday party. After the mall we walked around Old Sac and went inside Evangelines. I found a tiara there to wear on my birthday. Dinner was at 7 so we had time to just walk there. Firehouse is a very classy, high class restaurant. I felt so uncomfortable because we were the only asian people there. It was ok though, just on special occasions we'll dine out nice. I tried creme brulee for the first time and it was so delicious. After dinner we went to go see the movie Takers. I love that movie. Our anniversary was simple yet wonderful. I had a great time. I love you babe!

I had no clue Nelson got me a gift. He hid it so well. It was in Mary's room for almost a month. He put the small box on my dresser when I was gone. When I came back I was so surprised. As I started to open it he was too excited so he went in Mary's room again and grabbed a huge box. He said the small box is for our anniversary and the big box is for your birthday. Lucky me, he got me a Gucci purse with a matching wallet :)


Thank you so much babe <3


Started off with bread. The butter was so cute. I didn't even want to touch it.


Raw oysters for appetizers. Gross! I like them cooked.


For dinner I had a big fat steak and Nelson had filet mignon. It was pretty expensive for a steak that tasted average.


I love you <3


We laugh and we cry and we ride til we die. And when time passes by still our love will survive. I LOVE YOU! 09/23/O2 Nelson & Kacy <3 Happy 8 year anniversary! My first, my last, and my only love.

Nathan's 2nd Birthday

Everytime when Jayden or Nathan's birthday come around I get really excited to plan. It usually takes me about a month to get everything together for that one special day. It was pretty hectic because in September my niece Jazleen's birthday is on the 20th. Nathan's birthday is on the 22nd. Me and Nelson's anniversary is on the 23rd. And my birthday is on the 25th. The dates are all so jam-packed and close together. Nathan absolutely loves Elmo so of course I threw him an Elmo themed party. We celebrated his birthday on Saturday the 18th of September. Alot of family, friends and cousins came to help celebrate. That morning I felt like I was cooking forever. Luckily I had Mary, Kelly, and Karen's help. We made kapoon, bbq chicken, stir fry noodles, hot dogs, hamburgers, steak, chicken feet, egg rolls, fried rice, papaya salad and chocolate fondue. I rented a sno cone machine and a huge obsticle course jumphouse for the kids. The jumphouse was so huge that it couldn't fit in the backyard and could barely fit in the front yard. I also bought some little toys from walmart and dollar tree and used them for prizes in some games that we played with the kids. I'm sure the kids had lots of fun. Nathan didn't nap all day and caught a fever so he was cranky and only wanted to be by my side. I was so busy that I didn't even have time to eat. It was a chaotic but great day! I'm sure Nathan had fun, just that he was feeling a little under the weather with no nap all day. The next morning when he was feeling better he was so excited to play with all his new toys. On his real birthday the 22nd, Nelson and I took him and Jayden to Chuckee Cheese.

Kisses for Elmo


Whenever you watch Sesame Street there's always a Letter and Number of the day. That day it was all about Nathan so it was brought to you by the Letter N and the Number 2!


My little sweetheart


Nathan's cool jumphouse


Thank you for baking cookies cousin Klye


Nathan loved the Elmo treat boxes


The lady at the bakery was sweet enough to let me personalize his Elmo cake. This cake was just for him and everyone else had the cupcake cake


I was so upset with the cupcake cake. Who names their kid Nalhan? I'm sure the lady who wrote the order had bad hand writing


The kids getting ready to play balloon stomp


Jayden playing hot potato with Emily


Some of the kids lining up to play games


Brother Jayden and Nathan


Yummm, sno cones


Even though he's crying, I found it very funny that he couldn't stop eating


Opening presents


Elmo everything!


Nathan's so silly. Elmo's World!


Yeahhh! Birthday $$$

Sister Karen's 21st Birthday

For my sister Karen's 21st birthday I wanted to make it special for her. I love my sister to death. Sometimes I feel like she is my other half because many of my happiest moments are with her. She's always there for me regardless. I love the bond that we share. I'm fortunate because some sisters hate each others guts, but nope.. I love mine. Karen just had my niece Kylah so she wasn't up to celebrating. But I still wanted to make her day memorable. I surprised her with edible arrangements and a card at the door. As she read the card she started to cry tears of happiness. That was priceless. Later when I came over I gave her her present which was a juicy couture wallet. She loved it! She then changed her mind and decided to have dinner at a soul food resturant with a few close friends. It was a very simple yet happy birthday. I'm thankful to have such an amazing sister.

Happy Birthday Sister!


Look at Jazzy trying to sneak some icing haha


Getting old. The candles almost caused the fire alarm to come on LOL


Karen and my niece Jazleen


Makeup by yours truly :)


Presents!


Both of my beautiful sisters <3


I've never had real soul food before, it was mm mm good!

Nelson's 21st Birthday

For Nelson's 21st birthday we went to Waikiki Hawaii. I've always wanted to go to Hawaii my whole life. I was so excited! I feel like Nelson has showed me the world I've never seen before. I came from a very less fortunate family and when I met him my whole world changed. Anyways, our flight was 5 stinking hours. It was torture. Our hotel room ended to be bummy and we were very disappointed. We didn't want to let that ruin our trip so we barely stayed at the hotel. We shopped like we were ballers. Even though we're not haha. It was just a spare of the moment thing. We went on dinner cruises, chilled at the beach, sight seeing, shopping, luau, and drove a mo-ped to view all of waikiki. I'll never forget that day it was so hilarious! We had an amazing time. We never have time to focus on our relationship because it's all about the kids, so it was nice to have some "me and you" time again. I missed my kids like crazy. I couldn't wait to go but when I got there I couldn't wait to come back! Sometime in the future we'll bring Jayden and Nathan and make it a family trip :)

Hawaii is beyond gorgeous. Everytime I look at the beach it seems as if I'm looking at a postcard.


I love this picture that I took at the dinner cruise on the boat. Can you see the rainbow?


Dinner at Top of Waikiki. One of the best dinners I have ever had. It was so romantic


We both had the filet mignon


Chocolate fondue for dessert. I'm a sucker for chocolate covered strawberries


After dinner we took a late night walk on the beach. It was so romantic


Happy Birthday Babe! <3


I was in Hawaii! Of course I had to try a coconut drink from a real coconut :)


I found me a sugerdaddy ;)


For Nelson's birthday I surprised him with a Gucci wallet. He had no clue I even got him a gift. I hid it so well hehe. He loved it :)


Having a cup of "sex on the beach" on the beach


The Laua was amazing! The boys and girls knew how to shake it like a saltshaker. I wish I could move like that lol. Might I add, their bodies we're sick!


I hate that damn mo-ped. It looks fun. But, NEVER. AGAIN.